About the book

The handbook Nezvestoba is the first Slovenian work wholly dealing with the phenomenon of infidelity and subjects directly connected to it, e.g. jealousy and lying. The author researches in depth what infidelity actually is, why it occurs, how to deal with it and even how to effectively prevent it from jeopardizing the relationship with our partner. She studies in detail the so-called new form of infidelity occurring in work places and on the internet. She explains different types of infidelity, the circumstances in which a certain type appears, and, most importantly, how to deal with individual types and overcome the consequences. Special attention is paid to all the three sides of the love triangle, namely the cheater, the cheated and the third person stuck in between. To anyone who recognizes him/herself in one of these roles, the book offers good advice on finding the way out of the existing situation and continuing their life with a new trust in partnership – be it either an old, restored one or a newly founded one. You can either read it from the beginning to the end and become fully familiarized with the process of forming and blooming of unfaithfulness and its consequences, or you can quickly look up the thematically structured chapters that interest you the most. You can make use of the book either together with your partner or by yourself, since the individual chapters are dedicated to personal healing as well as to the advice on how you can both find a mutual path and even deepen your relationship after the love affair. The handbook Nezvestoba is invaluable because it deals with the subject that is in today’s society approved and disapproved of at the same time, it is a growing public taboo. With the help of this book, you will be able to understand infidelity better, learn to place it in the broader social context and to deal with it in personal life.